17 Top Wedding Tips (according to destination photographers)
A wedding photographer’s eye notices more than great light and endearing candid opportunities; we see what makes the big day run smoothly. We have captured many types of weddings here in Key West, but some advice always holds true. Over twnety years of wedding photography has taught us countless lessons, but we’ve “narrowed” them down for you to our favorite 17.
Please enjoy the following tried-and-true wedding photo tips for Key West brides and grooms!
1. Hire a Wedding PLANNER
A wedding planner on your team is well worth the cost! Even for simple weddings, logistics can be way too much for a bride to handle and feel as present and carefree as a bride should. Their whole purpose is to make both the planning process and your wedding day as breezy as possible. You’ll get to revel in enjoying your big day rather than stressing about the details, and you won’t have to worry about vendors coming to you with questions or issues!
There are typically two kinds of wedding planning: full-service and day-of/month-of. Especially if you’re busy or not a local, full-service is what you’ll want if you’d like a professional to handle everything from start to finish, based on your vision. If you’re gung-ho about doing most of the planning, day-of/month-of planning makes sure your hard work is carried out smoothly, giving you utter peace of mind on your wedding day. Thanks to a wedding planner, everyone can be more relaxed including the photographer, which helps in capturing romantic, candid photos!
2. Get your Gown STEAMED and Suit Pressed
Not every wedding ensemble will need it, but many will require some TLC after a long journey to the Conch Republic. We highly recommend Steam Queen, who caters specifically to weddings and provides top-notch quality and service. Also, her hassle-free process includes pickup and delivery, and she can include steaming for the parents and/or wedding party, so you don't have to worry!
3. Get a Wedding Dress Hanger
A plain hanger just doesn’t do justice to a beautiful wedding dress. Ordering a special hanger for your gown gives a festive touch to your day-of photos. Etsy has plenty of options for affordable, custom bridal hangers. They're also a great idea for the guys!
4. Matching Getting-Ready Outfits
A fun thing to do is giving your bridesmaids robes for the getting ready process! The vast majority of my bridal clients here in Key West get ready on location, so these thoughtful gifts create cohesive photo ops. Tie-front robes or button down shirts are practical too – no smeared makeup or mussed hair. You can find matching robes or shirts on Etsy. And don’t forget about the moms!
5. Don’t Forget Transportation
Your wedding day will involve getting from Point A to Point B, and possibly C and D! Make sure to plan for the transportation logistics as well as the necessary travel time. We recommend Old Town Trolley for an especially unique experience!
6. Hold Your Bouquet Lower
Due to the unexpected weight of most bouquets, brides tend to default to holding them up higher to compensate, which ends up covering up all that beautiful detail you so carefully chose about your dress! Instead, hold your bouquet lower, around belly button/hip height, with the flowers facing out and stems towards you. This may feel awkward at first, but it will look more natural in photos and will show off of you and your beautiful bouquet better!
7. RELAX YOUR FINGERS
Avoid spreading your fingers - such as on your hip or fiancé’s shoulder - when posing for photos. This creates an unflattering “death grip” appearance. Much more pleasing to see hands without any tension or strain in the tendons. So wiggle your fingers, jiggle your wrists, loosen up your arms, and let your fingertips softly rest instead!
8. No Hair TIES!
Bridal party wrists should be a hair tie-free zone. You don’t want unplanned accessories sneaking into photos. This can add significant delays as your photographer repeatedly reminds people to remove them (then the several seconds desperate search around for someone to hold the offending accessory or searching for a place to store it in the meantime….just one time, for one person….no big deal, but multiply that times 6 or 8 or 12 bridesmaids, and over hundreds of photos throughout the day, and you’re essentially losing out on “photo time” for the sake of something that could have been emphasized from the onset. Banning hair ties will help your wedding photos look significantly more timeless and polished.
9. Book Enough Time with your Photographer
At a minimum, plan to professionally capture the getting ready process through the first dance. If you’re on the fence, err on the side of incorporating a buffer into the schedule. Just in case you encounter an unplanned delay, your photographer still will have enough time to capture all of the highlights AND have time to be creative! It’s hard for us to pull out all the stops with fun lighting techniques, move to interesting backdrops, or evoke “Just” the right expression, when we’re rushing. There is no need to be anxious or distracted by logistics when you should be focusing on having fun!
10. Get your Hair & Makeup DONE Professionally
Lower your stress by relying on a beauty professional! Key West has many terrific options, and we’re always happy to recommend trusted vendors. Don’t worry if you can’t swing a trial run before your Key West destination wedding. Reviews, personal references, and pictures from the artist’s portfolio are excellent resources.
If you’re comfortable handling your own makeup, just remember to factor in Key West’s heat and humidity. Primer and setting spray can be valuable additions to your day-of routine.
11. Enjoy a Peaceful Moment before Walking Down the Aisle
Take a minute for solo reflection or hugs with your inner circle. Pause to appreciate the true significance of the occasion. This is such a whirlwind day, and it can be easy to forget that you are embarking on a momentous, amazing journey. Allow yourself time to slow down and soak it all in.
12. CONNECT WITH CAMERA while Walking down the Aisle
Your gaze probably will be drawn to your groom and loved ones – as it should be! However, for the memories you’ll reflect upon after the big day, make a conscious effort to glance towards your photographer for a special ‘action shot.’ You may want to suggest this your wedding party too.
13. Take Advantage of the Key West Sunset!
Plan time with your photographer at sunset. After all, this is Key West, and we are known for this spectacular daily event! And no matter where you are getting married, this is the best part of the day for a few pictures. Be sure to look up sunset timing for your big day. Here in Key West, it falls between 5:40 pm and 8:20 pm based on the season.
14. Consider a "First Look"
If you want to minimize photo-taking during cocktail hour, consider planning a “First Look” when the couple sees each other before the ceremony. This intimate ritual is a great opportunity to get a few formal couple shots before everything gets started.
15. PRE-PLAN YOUR Exit Photos
Coordinate the exact location and timing of your exit, allowing for adequate time before the venue closes. Give your photographer a heads up about any closing festivities - confetti, sparklers, bubbles, etc. - to ensure optimal end-of-night photos.
16. Hydrate and Nourish
As you already know, Key West can be very hot and humid! Beat the heat by drinking water throughout the day, and keep yourself fueled with some sustenance! Make sure there are plenty of water bottles (or cups and water jugs) on hand for the whole bridal party. Stay energized with hearty snacks like energy bars and veggies. They’re also useful for soaking up any pre-ceremony champagne.
Also, take the time to enjoy your own wedding food during the reception! Odds are that you’ve spent hours carefully choosing this meal. You deserve to have your cake (or Key lime pie) and eat it too!
17. Most Importantly, Breathe!
This is your day – enjoy it! You are making memories that will last a lifetime. Be prepared to deviate from the plan and roll with any changes. The best weddings are “perfectly imperfect.” You’ve spent months planning this day. When it finally comes, your main job is to relax and have a blast celebrating with your spouse and loved ones!